Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Dear: Loveless
8:27 AM | 
Posted by
Ericka Williams
I am a single Black Female who wants to be in a relationship but can’t seem to find the “Right Guy” to make it happen with. What’s a girl to do?
Loveless
Dear Loveless,
Make one. WE always want the reward without the work. Maybe the men that are meeting you are thinking the same about you, that you are not “girlfriend” material. Why do we think that a mate comes ready- made or is already perfect for us? Having a partner means partnership; working together to merge together and become one. It doesn’t happen overnight. Find someone who has SOME of the qualities you would like, and work on the rest. Of course, only take on what you are willing to work with but never expect the end to be at the beginning. What you want in the end will come with the process. Where are you looking? Do you let men know up front what you are looking for? It’s okay to be honest, it will save you from a lot of wasted energy. Relationships are good, but they should not be rushed into if you don’t want to have a bunch of them before you have a GOOD one. Take your time so that the one you get will be around for a while.
Loveless
Dear Loveless,
Make one. WE always want the reward without the work. Maybe the men that are meeting you are thinking the same about you, that you are not “girlfriend” material. Why do we think that a mate comes ready- made or is already perfect for us? Having a partner means partnership; working together to merge together and become one. It doesn’t happen overnight. Find someone who has SOME of the qualities you would like, and work on the rest. Of course, only take on what you are willing to work with but never expect the end to be at the beginning. What you want in the end will come with the process. Where are you looking? Do you let men know up front what you are looking for? It’s okay to be honest, it will save you from a lot of wasted energy. Relationships are good, but they should not be rushed into if you don’t want to have a bunch of them before you have a GOOD one. Take your time so that the one you get will be around for a while.
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- Ericka Williams is a tour de force, a phenomonal woman. She is a compassionate person who not only cares about herself and hers, but she cares about humanity. All of her books are themed to show the unlimited access of human beings to redemption. She is a Christian, spreading the message that Jesus saves; no matter who you are, what you've done, or what other people think of you. She uses societal ills, her own experiences, and real situations that we all face, to show that their is a light at the end of every tunnel, if you take God's hand and let him lead the way. She may not fit the mold of a "saint", but she sure is a believer and she knows that we all only have the obligation to spread the Word, the way that we personally know how. Ericka Williams is a mother of two, an elementary school Language Arts teacher, an actor, a director, and a producer of short films. She is currently in the cast of The Cartel Publications, feature "Pitbulls in a Skirt" movie being released in the summer of 2011. She continues to write books, act, and prepare to fulfill her dream of having her books turned into films.
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