Sunday, February 20, 2011
DEAR: BORN BAD
9:35 PM | 
Posted by
Ericka Williams
I’m fighting with my mom a lot. What should I do?
Born Bad
Dear Born Bad,
Sometimes our parents don’t understand that we must grow. Sometimes they don’t want to let us go because they are scared. The world outside is very mean and dangerous so if your mom is holding a tight grip it’s because she cares. Now, if you, on the other hand, are trying to demand your independence by being disrespectful, rude, or deceitful, then you are not being fair either. Sometimes our friends take precedence, meaning we think they are more important, than our parents; but friends come and go, family is there through thick and thin. So what should you do? Be honest and open about what you want to do. The more you parent thinks you can be trusted, the more they will trust you with being independent. You must earn it. If you are always getting into trouble than you cannot be trusted to make your own decisions. Your mom may be saving you from yourself; meaning she may see you headed in the wrong direction and she will not sit by and allow you to destroy yourself or your future. Tell your mom that you love and appreciate her. As a mom, I know how it feels do to all that I have for my family and feel taken for granted. It’s not a good feeling. So remember, tell your mom how you feel and ask her how you two can work things out. It takes two to argue and two to get along.
Born Bad
Dear Born Bad,
Sometimes our parents don’t understand that we must grow. Sometimes they don’t want to let us go because they are scared. The world outside is very mean and dangerous so if your mom is holding a tight grip it’s because she cares. Now, if you, on the other hand, are trying to demand your independence by being disrespectful, rude, or deceitful, then you are not being fair either. Sometimes our friends take precedence, meaning we think they are more important, than our parents; but friends come and go, family is there through thick and thin. So what should you do? Be honest and open about what you want to do. The more you parent thinks you can be trusted, the more they will trust you with being independent. You must earn it. If you are always getting into trouble than you cannot be trusted to make your own decisions. Your mom may be saving you from yourself; meaning she may see you headed in the wrong direction and she will not sit by and allow you to destroy yourself or your future. Tell your mom that you love and appreciate her. As a mom, I know how it feels do to all that I have for my family and feel taken for granted. It’s not a good feeling. So remember, tell your mom how you feel and ask her how you two can work things out. It takes two to argue and two to get along.
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- Ericka Williams is a tour de force, a phenomonal woman. She is a compassionate person who not only cares about herself and hers, but she cares about humanity. All of her books are themed to show the unlimited access of human beings to redemption. She is a Christian, spreading the message that Jesus saves; no matter who you are, what you've done, or what other people think of you. She uses societal ills, her own experiences, and real situations that we all face, to show that their is a light at the end of every tunnel, if you take God's hand and let him lead the way. She may not fit the mold of a "saint", but she sure is a believer and she knows that we all only have the obligation to spread the Word, the way that we personally know how. Ericka Williams is a mother of two, an elementary school Language Arts teacher, an actor, a director, and a producer of short films. She is currently in the cast of The Cartel Publications, feature "Pitbulls in a Skirt" movie being released in the summer of 2011. She continues to write books, act, and prepare to fulfill her dream of having her books turned into films.
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1 comments:
Yeah things of this nature happens far as parent child situations go.. In a jam like this also... Best thing to do is walk away if the argument or debate cant be settled in a mature manner...
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